I think one of the things that is bugging me about breaking up is the way in which it ended. Recently I heard about another acquaintance of mine that ended a relationship. One day his slave came to the realization that the way she felt wasn’t the same so she went and talked it over [...]
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What’s bugging me
Posted in D/s on January 10, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
The End?
Posted in D/s, Poly, tagged ending relationship on December 9, 2008 | 3 Comments »
CC asked me recently if we had reached the point of no return. I said I didn’t think we had, but we were rapidly headed that way. I kind of think maybe we have though. I started writing a list of what I felt I needed from her, but based on her last journal entry, [...]
Relationship ending ritual
Posted in D/s, tagged breakup, master, slave, uncollaring, ending relationship on November 16, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
A friend that I met with the other day suggested that CC and I do a relationship ending ritual, something like an uncollaring. I do think that is a good idea, we need to put that behind us. I also feel a lot of internal resistatance to it, which is probably even more of a [...]
The Challenge of Command
Posted in D/s, ramblings, tagged command, D/s, leadership on November 2, 2008 | 1 Comment »
I was chatting with Dad yesterday about the problem with theft at his company. A lot of small and medium equipment had a tendency to just walk off. The day before we were talking about the outlaw philosophy that seems to be prevalent here in Oklahoma. He has often seem equipment just suddenly show up [...]
Relationships
Posted in D/s, tagged needy, relationships, submission on October 29, 2008 | 1 Comment »
I got a forward today from a girl that I’ve been chatting with for years. I often read them, but never forward them. There was a quote in this one that caught my eye.
“Remember the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.”
I’ll have to ponder [...]
Labels, love, and protocol
Posted in D/s, Poly, ramblings, tagged D/s, labels, Poly on October 8, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
I’ve always said that I hate labels, but that isn’t an entirely accurate statement. I hate arguments about labels. Get a group of poly or D/s people together, and ask what is the difference between poly and swinging, or sub and slave, and you’ll get a lively discussion, and in the end, even if you’ve [...]
Minor Epiphany
Posted in D/s, tagged being a man, husbands, Laura Schlessinger on September 26, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
So, I think I had a minor epiphany today, from the most unlikely source (I suppose that is usually the case). I was at the bookstore, just kind of browsing around, and I saw a book titled “The proper care and feeding of husbands” by Dr Laura Schlessinger. She is not one of my favorite [...]
The view of grandmas
Posted in D/s, Taoism on September 26, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
I meant to write about this the other day, but as I was on the road, I didn’t really have time. I stopped to visit my grandmother on the way out here. This was supposed to be the fall where I go to visit her and talk to her about poly, and introduce her to [...]
Strange Dream
Posted in D/s on September 26, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
I had a very strange dream last night. I don’t remember dreams very well, so I’ll remember it as best I can. I went home after only being gone a week, and everything was changed. CC had grown a beard. Bridget spent the whole time on the bed crying. CC was also hiding something from [...]
The last day before I leave
Posted in D/s, Poly, tagged anger, jealousy on September 21, 2008 | 1 Comment »
Or not…
I was suppose to leave tomorrow morning, but that isn’t going to happen. Took too long to get my bike back from the shop, and I still have a lot to do before I can go. So hopefully Monday now. I need to get out of here though. I know I shouldn’t take the [...]
