CC made a comment a while back that I need to control everyone around me. I don’t think that is accurate, at the moment, the only person I want to control is Bridget, and even that I don’t think would qualify as a “need”. I do think that I need to be a leader, not [...]
Archive for the ‘ramblings’ Category
Lead vs control
Posted in ramblings, tagged control, leadership on December 1, 2008 | 2 Comments »
The Challenge of Command
Posted in D/s, ramblings, tagged command, D/s, leadership on November 2, 2008 | 1 Comment »
I was chatting with Dad yesterday about the problem with theft at his company. A lot of small and medium equipment had a tendency to just walk off. The day before we were talking about the outlaw philosophy that seems to be prevalent here in Oklahoma. He has often seem equipment just suddenly show up [...]
Labels, love, and protocol
Posted in D/s, Poly, ramblings, tagged D/s, labels, Poly on October 8, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
I’ve always said that I hate labels, but that isn’t an entirely accurate statement. I hate arguments about labels. Get a group of poly or D/s people together, and ask what is the difference between poly and swinging, or sub and slave, and you’ll get a lively discussion, and in the end, even if you’ve [...]
Power
Posted in ramblings, tagged power on October 6, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Someone on here once said power is an illusion. It’s not, it’s a very real phenomenon. It’s also very transitory, it can take years to grow, and you can lose it in a heartbeat. Or you can gain it in a phone call, and watch it wane over 10 years.
CC is definitely the one with [...]
pain
Posted in ramblings, tagged pain on October 6, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
A man went to the doctor and said “I feel pain when I do this.” The doctor said “Don’t do that.”
CC has a quote on her messenger, it says “Pain is weakness leaving the body” It’s been bugging me for a few days now, but I couldn’t quite put my finger on it. Pain can [...]
More thoughts on saying I love you in a D/s relationship
Posted in D/s, ramblings on September 9, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
This post isn’t really related to anything going on in my life right now, just some thoughts. This is more the kind of thing I had intended on writing when I started this blog.
When I get out of the shower in the morning and reach for a towel, if I find it, I smile. Not [...]
How do you say I love you?
Posted in D/s, Poly, ramblings, tagged CC on September 8, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
Fuck, right in the middle of a nice bath, and something occurs to me, so here I sit, soaking wet, with more to write.
For the past 10 years submission has been how CC shows that she loves me, and how I have known that. I don’t think it’s just a matter of “doing things for [...]
